Non-Negotiables
For a while, I've felt like I'm at the mercy of my schedule and my todo list. Things pile up faster than I can knock them down and this continues until I reach critical mass. Then I have a sort of self intervention. I take off from work or cancel some stuff on my schedule and just attack stuff I let pile up (which usually includes my messy house, so it is literally a pile). I don't think I've ever felt like I've been at a good homeostatic condition with my life.
Which brings me to my main point. Certain things, like my directX UI for Settlers of Catan, can pile up and its not a big deal. Other things, like cleaning my house, ARE a big deal. So in addition to my todo list, planned activities and schedule, I'm implementing some non-negotiables. That is to say that no matter what happens in my day, I AM doing these activities!
On a daily level these include:
- eating right and taking my meds
- work (obviously) (8 hours)
- gym (2.5 hours)
- 15 minute rule for cleaning
- sleep (8 HOURS!!!!)
Then there's the weekly cleaning tasks, like the hot tub, kitty litter, garage, etc.
Then, of course things I'd like to get to:
- 45 minutes for side job work
- 45 minutes for fun tech projects
Then I have to allow an hour for tv watching and another 30 minutes for miscellaneous stuff. I need to make sure that my goals are realistic, cuz as soon as I start breaking rules like these just once, then the rule becomes a lot harder to stick with. Also, I read somewhere that you have to do something for 3 weeks to make it a habit. Its just like brushing your teeth. You've done it for so long, you do it without even thinking. That's where I'd like to get with these tasks.